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What they do with your chats

Everything you type into a chatbot goes to the company that runs it. Here's what each one says it does with your conversations, and the exact setting to change it. Taken from each company's own privacy pages.

Facts checked September 24, 2026

The short version

AssistantUses your chats to train AI?Private or temporary chat?Humans may review?
ChatGPTYes, unless you turn it off1Yes, Temporary Chat2Yes, authorized staff as needed3
ClaudeOnly if you allow it4Yes, Incognito4Limited staff, with data de-linked from your account5
GeminiYes, on by default for adults6,7Yes, Temporary chat7Yes7
CopilotYes, unless you turn it off8,9Not stated for the consumer appYes8
PerplexityYes, on by default10Yes, Incognito11Not stated
GrokYes, unless you turn it off12Yes, Private Chat13Yes12
Meta AIUses AI chats to improve products14Incognito Chat, rolling out15Not stated
DeepSeekYes, opt out by email; stored in China16Not statedNot stated

"Not stated" means we couldn't find it on the company's official pages as of September 24, 2026.

How to turn off training, app by app

ChatGPT

Settings → Data controls → Improve the model for everyone → off

OpenAI says it may use content from consumer ChatGPT to train its models. Business, Enterprise and Edu accounts are excluded by default. If you give a thumbs-up or thumbs-down, the whole conversation may still be used for training.1

A Temporary Chat stays out of your history and isn't used for training, though OpenAI may keep a copy for up to 30 days for safety.2 Chats you delete are removed within 30 days, with exceptions for security or legal reasons.3

Claude

Settings → Privacy → Help improve Claude

In August 2025 Anthropic changed its consumer terms: it now trains on chats from Free, Pro and Max accounts only when that setting is on. The choice doesn't apply to work, government, education or API accounts.17

The setting also changes how long your data is kept. With training on, Anthropic keeps data for up to five years. With it off, the standard is 30 days.17 Incognito chats are never used for training, even if the setting is on.4 Chats flagged for safety violations can be kept longer.18

Gemini

gemini.google.com → Settings & help → Activity → Turn off (or Turn off and delete activity)

For users 18 and older, "Keep Activity" is on by default.6 While it's on, your chats are saved and used to improve Google's services. Activity auto-deletes after 18 months unless you change it to 3 or 36 months.7

Some chats are read by human reviewers, and reviewed chats can be kept for up to three years.7 Temporary chats are kept for 72 hours and not used to improve Google AI with human reviewers.7,19

Microsoft Copilot

copilot.com → Profile → Privacy → Training on conversation activity and Training on voice conversations → off

Microsoft says it uses data from Copilot for AI training. Work accounts, users under 18 and signed-out users are excluded.8 Opting out covers future conversations.9 Conversation history is kept for 18 months unless you delete it, and some conversations get automated and human review.8

Perplexity

Account → Preferences → AI data retention → off

"AI Data Retention" is on by default for Free, Pro and Max users. Perplexity says turning it off applies only to data collected afterward, and training data already collected can't be removed.10 Incognito threads expire after 24 hours.11 Your data is kept as long as your account is active.20

Grok

App: Settings → Data Controls → Improve the model. Web: Settings → Data → Improve the Model

xAI says it may use your prompts and Grok's responses to train its models. Once you switch the setting off, new conversations aren't used, and a limited number of authorized staff may review conversations.12 Private Chat (the ghost icon) keeps chats out of your history and deletes them within 30 days, with legal and safety exceptions.13 Grok used inside the X app follows X's own privacy terms.

Meta AI

Meta has said it uses what people share with its AI features to improve its products, but doesn't train on your private messages with friends and family unless someone in the chat shares them with the AI.14 In May 2026 it began rolling out Incognito Chat in WhatsApp and the Meta AI app, where messages disappear by default.15 Meta's settings pages weren't readable by our tools, so check them directly in Meta's help center.21

Five habits that protect you with any chatbot

  1. Leave out anything you wouldn't post publicly. Canada's privacy regulator advises not to share sensitive or identifying personal information with AI chatbots.22 The UK's cyber security agency notes your query is visible to the company running the AI.23
  2. Turn off training using the settings above if you don't want your chats used.
  3. Use the temporary or incognito mode for one-off questions about health, money or family.
  4. Delete old chat history where the app allows it.22
  5. Use a strong password on your AI account and review its privacy settings now and then.22

Sources for this page

  1. How your data is used to improve model performance. OpenAI Help Center.Published help article · checked September 24, 2026
  2. Temporary Chat FAQ. OpenAI Help Center.Published help article · checked September 24, 2026
  3. Data usage for consumer services FAQ. OpenAI Help Center.Published help article · checked September 24, 2026
  4. Is my data used for model training?. Anthropic Privacy Center.Published help article · checked September 24, 2026
  5. Who can view my conversations?. Anthropic Help Center.Published help article · checked September 24, 2026
  6. Manage your Gemini Apps activity. Google Gemini Help.Published help article · checked September 24, 2026
  7. Gemini Apps Privacy Hub. Google Gemini Help.Published undated help article · checked September 24, 2026
  8. Privacy FAQ for Microsoft Copilot. Microsoft Support.Published help article · checked September 24, 2026
  9. Microsoft Copilot privacy controls. Microsoft Support.Published help article · checked September 24, 2026
  10. Data collection at Perplexity. Perplexity Help Center.Published help article · checked September 24, 2026
  11. Where did my threads go?. Perplexity Help Center.Published help article · checked September 24, 2026
  12. Consumer FAQs. xAI.Published current page · checked September 24, 2026
  13. Privacy Policy (effective August 24, 2026). xAI.Published August 24, 2026 · checked September 24, 2026
  14. Privacy Matters: Meta's Generative AI Features. Meta Newsroom.Published September 2023 · checked September 24, 2026
  15. Incognito Chat with Meta AI on WhatsApp. Meta Newsroom.Published May 13, 2026 · checked September 24, 2026
  16. DeepSeek Privacy Policy (last updated February 10, 2026). DeepSeek.Published February 10, 2026 · checked September 24, 2026
  17. Updates to our Consumer Terms and Privacy Policy. Anthropic.Published August 28, 2025 · checked September 24, 2026
  18. How long do you store my data?. Anthropic Privacy Center.Published help article · checked September 24, 2026
  19. Temporary chats and new privacy controls in the Gemini app. Google.Published August 13, 2025 · checked September 24, 2026
  20. How long does Perplexity retain my search history, profile data and personal information?. Perplexity Help Center.Published help article · checked September 24, 2026
  21. Remove posts, chats and media from Meta AI and Vibes. Meta Help Center.Published help article · checked September 24, 2026
  22. Tips for using AI chatbots. Office of the Privacy Commissioner of Canada.Published current page · checked September 24, 2026
  23. ChatGPT and large language models: what's the risk?. UK National Cyber Security Centre.Published March 14, 2023 · checked September 24, 2026